NeurobeautifulWhy does autism create such a wide spectrum of traits?
Because autistic brains are hyper-connected. You can see it on a brain scan. We have neural pathways that others don’t, like secret passages all over our brains.
This results in a torrent of information to process, including physical sensations and pattern recognition. By default, everything …
There’s autism, a neurotype with a cluster of predispositions. From birth, it makes some things enjoyable and other things hard.
Then there’s autistic distress, which is the way that neurotype interacts with stressors. It varies over time, based on the environment and any co-occurring conditions.
The first thing is what most advocates call “autism.” The …
Yesterday, I reshared my post about the concept of “overreacting.” I believe it’s rarely done by autistic people – or maybe anyone, but autistics get accused of it more often, so that’s what I focused on.
Some autistic people commented that they do overreact sometimes. So, I want to explore the concept a …
I’ve seen quite a few memes about the neurodivergent tendency to get nothing done for half a day before an appointment or event.
The tone is always playfully self-deprecating – like, “Haha, who else here gives in to the illusion that an item on the calendar casts a spell of uselessness on the preceding hours?” …
In my teens and twenties, I made various friends and acquaintances whom I now realize were undeniably autistic. A few knew it, but most didn’t.
My attitude toward them, usually unspoken, was always the same: “This person is so incredibly cool. Everyone seems to ignore that because of their weird clothing and movements, but everyone …
Your pain is valid. What they said shouldn’t hurt, did.
Your intentions are valid. What they said was malicious, wasn’t.
Your passions are valid. What they said isn’t worthwhile, is.
Your boundaries are valid. What they said is selfish, isn’t.
Your life is valid. What they said is tragic, does not have to be.
More …
“Why did I have a meltdown?”
A guide for soul-searching autistics!
Have you ever found yourself crying, yelling, breaking things, or hurting yourself for reasons that seemed miniscule or mysterious?
Mid-meltdown is no time for sleuthing, but a later review can help identify causes and avoid them in the future.
I prefer to call these …