October 21, 2018

“What is one piece of advice that you wish you could give all autistics? How about all non-autistics?”

Someone asked me these two questions today, and my answers were more alike than I expected.

For autistics, I said: Never stop looking for ways to make hard things easier, from social interaction to sensory overload. You …

February 11, 2018

“How can non-autistics be more supportive toward autistics?”

I sooo appreciate it when my non-autistic friends ask this! πŸ™‚Β Every autistic person is different, so it’s best to ask the ones you know. As for me, I appreciate it when you…

ALLOW ME TO “STIM” – I feel so much calmer when I know that …

February 1, 2018

“How did your family react?”

My close family could see how happy I was to finally understand myself, and they celebrated that with me. But they also cautioned me against sharing my excitement too widely, because they didn’t want me to be hurt by negative stereotypes that people have about autism. So I decided that …

January 31, 2018

“How did your diagnosis affect you?”

The diagnosis itself didn’t impact me much – it only affirmed what I already knew. I mostly wanted a diagnosis so that when I talk to people about autism, I can spend less of that time convincing them I’m actually autistic.

What really affected me was learning that I’m …

January 30, 2018

“How did you find out you’re autistic?”

In my mid-twenties, I met a new group of friends. I didn’t realize at the time that most of them identify as autistic. All I knew was that they understood me in ways that no one else did. They also actively appreciated parts of my personality that others …