December 2, 2020

Some people will find it hard to give you what you need – patience, precision, comfort, consistency. This can translate into feeling hard to love. Not unloved – just hard to love.

Everything changes when you meet people who find it easy to give what you need. They don’t even have to like you all that much. They just have to see your presence as a feather – the opposite of a burden.

It’ll make you feel like you’re floating. It’ll make you feel like you’re loved. It’ll make you want to help others see that they’re easy to love too.

P.S. I write from my personal experience as an autistic. What I share is not a substitute for advice from an autistic medical professional. Also, some of my opinions have changed since I first wrote them.